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Donna Martin

When I was much younger than I am now, I used to work in a casino. I would have to leave my two children, (one boy and one girl) with my then husband. I never really trusted him alone with my children, because he was so mean to me I didn't even think what he might do to the children. He used to pinch them on the neck like Spok would do on "Star Trek", but he would pinch really hard. It would make them cry. There was nothing I could do, or I would get it worse than the kids. I was so trapped and didn't know where to go or what to do. All I wanted to do was to protect the kids the best that I could. Many years went by until I was able to save us all. We were able to move, with help from my mom and dad. If it wasn't for them both I could have lost my children. I fell into a bad situation, but that is another story. Save your family, you only have one.

Yesenia Zepeda

To Chasy, your feelings are valid and important. Thank you for being able to be so strong and open about your pain. If this person continues to bother you it would be a good idea to set a boundary or get some form of restraining order. Remember you are not at fault for the actions of others. You are not alone and doing your best at being a mom. If there is anything we can do to help please feel free to give us a call or email.

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